If they’re keeping their options open, if they’re hedging their bets, then they’re not worth your time, not worth the energy you’re pouring into them. You can’t build something real, something lasting, with someone who’s only giving you pieces of themselves, someone who’s holding back, waiting to see if something better comes along. That’s not love; that’s just settling, and you deserve so much more than that.
Don’t settle for scraps, for half-hearted gestures, for someone who can’t or won’t give you everything. Let them go if they’re not fully with you. Because somewhere out there is someone who won’t make you question, who won’t make you feel like you’re asking for too much just by wanting to be their first and only choice. Someone who’s all in, who’s ready to give you their full attention, their full loyalty, without hesitation, without a second thought.
You deserve someone who’s willing to risk it all for you, someone who doesn’t need to keep their options open because they know, deep down, that you’re worth every bit of the risk. And until you find that, don’t settle. Don’t let yourself be dragged into a half-love, into something that doesn’t fill you up, that doesn’t make you feel like you’re the only one that matters. Because you are, and you deserve someone who sees that, someone who’s all in, just like you.
THIS IS BEAUTIFUL CHAOS!